Do you have a loved one requiring treatment for alcoholism?
If so, an alcohol intervention may be the road to follow. Truth be told, an
intervention can be a stressful ordeal. Though you likely have reservations
about confronting your loved one, it is important to take action before the
issue escalates into greater risk areas.
Location, Location, Location
The proper location is essential to the success of an alcohol intervention. This spot should serve as a neutral zone for both the
alcoholic and participants alike. In this way, you can effectively lessen the
possibility of your loved one feeling threatened or on-guard. Plan a time when
the subject is most likely to be clear headed and sober to ensure they are able
to fully understand the extent of the situation at hand.
Communication
Before the intervention can begin, it is important to obtain
a commitment from the alcoholic that they will listen without interruption
while others are speaking. Express your concern without blame or accusation.
Stick to the facts and support your claims with recent examples of how the
individual’s behaviors have negatively impacted both themselves and those
surrounding them.
In most cases, it’s best to write out your feelings ahead of
time. It can be easy for emotions to get the best of us in stressful
situations. In this way, you can communicate your concern clearly, without
frustration, anger and personal attacks.
Offer Answers
After each participant has been afforded the opportunity to
communicate his or her concerns, a solution must be offered. Having a treatment
plan in place prior to the intervention is imperative to a safe and successful
transition into recovery. If your loved one agrees to accept help, your plan
must be enacted immediately to avoid delays and second thoughts.
If the individual shows hesitancy towards recovery, an
ultimatum should be offered to motivate them in the right direction. Ultimatums
can range from revoked financial assistance to cutting off communication
completely. Please note that if you are unwilling to carry out the ultimatum,
it should not be given. Empty threats will get you nowhere; causing only
additional issues moving forward.
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